MY TWO FRIENDSI have two friends who are almost alike. As in, they resemble themselves for many angles.
I will call them James and John (Not their real names)
Both of them are average income earners. In Fact, they earn almost the same amounts. Both of them are average looking guys, both of them are about 26 years old, both of them are generous, they both live in a flat and both of them drive the same type of cars.
Here is the only difference between them…
Girls flock around James like flies. They love him, they throw themselves at him, and about a couple of girls had even fought over him in the past. Some of the girls even go as far as buying things for him and trying to tie him down by getting pregnant for him.
As in, he is a real player who effortlessly gets girls interested in him.
But John’s isn’t that lucky…
Getting a girl is a big wahala for him. And for the ones he MANAGES to get; the way they play him is very touching.
He buys them things, tells them how much he loves them, shows them that he really cares for them. And these girls hang around for a while then either dumps him, tell him they don’t love him or out rightly cheats on him.
Some hang around him for a while, allow him to spend on them and then they send him an IV to their wedding with some other dude.
So what is the difference between the two?
Why are they so alike, and yet, have different results with love?
What is James’s secret?
That is what I will show you…infact he uses ONE main trick.
THE TRICK is this: He becomes emotionally superior to the babe
BECOMING EMOTIONALLY SUPERIOR TO A BABE:
Girls love to be chased. They love to play hard to get – it’s their nature.
Sometimes their shakara is quite normal.
But some other times; they do the shakara for you because you irritate them and they don’t want you around. They do it so they can put you off.
If a girl ignores your calls,
Ignores your chats,
Doesn’t want to go out on a date with you,
Never agrees to visit you,
Cheats on you,
Acts cold on the phone with you,
Talks to you in a harsh tone when you talk to her,
Doesn’t agree to give you her number after you have asked her twice for it…
She is not playing hard to get this time, bro, she actually finds you irritating. That is the hard plain painful truth. She finds you so irritating that the only thing she wants to do is to give you those attitudes so you can just free her.
If you get this same behavior from MOST girls you approach, then you are like my friend John
But don’t worry – I am about to show you what will put a stop to it forever (Yes, I said it. forever).
So what can you do to put a stop to it?
By becoming emotionally superior to her.
How do you become emotionally superior?
Here is the trick; To get a girl interested in you you have to do the opposite of what other guys do around her.
Other Guys praise her.
Other Guys try never to offend her.
Other Guys say only nice things to her.
Guys call her to ask her why she doesn’t reply their calls.
Other guys beg her to love them…
The trick is never do any of these things other guys do but rather, do the direct opposite.
Why?
Because the old method of praising girls, telling them how you feel about them and buying things for them don’t work anymore – it might have worked when you were a teenager but guy, babes don wise up – as they grow older they become more akpo.
If the old method of always trying to impress girls work then the girls you’ve chased in the past for dey trip for you die
For instance, instead of praising a girl – tease her.
Don’t say: “You are beautiful” (It’s a dry praise she hears all the time. In Fact she has heard it so much that it just boosts her ego without making her feel anything for who said it)
Turn it around and make it more sexy by saying something more manly:
Take for instance:
On a date you can say something like: “on a scale of 1- 10. For your face, I will give you 5 points. I will need to see some qualities in you before I give you the other 5 points”
Now, if you keep face like mess and say this to a girl she will think you are an arrogant . The trick is to say it playfully – smile, relax and say it.
Most times when you say this to a girl she would go like: “For your mind. What are the qualities sha?”.
And you’ve hooked her…
You could throw in more teasing to turn up the tension by saying “Quality number one: give me 6 twins at a go for 2 points”.
So why does this works so well to set you apart from other guys?
It is simple plain psychology – human beings only LOVE interacting with people who are their level or above their level.
Trying to impress a girl you are chasing is like walking into her room crawling, with your hands stretched out as you beg for attention.
It makes a girl see you as someone below her.
Also, this method makes a girl go like WTF. Why is he so different from other guys, there must be something special about him – that’s just why he would behave this way.
MORE EXAMPLES FOR PROJECTING EMOTIONAL SUPERIORITY
# Never ask a girl how she feels about you. Never ever ever do it. My wahala is that even after reading this some guys will go out and still do it. when you ask a girl how she feels about you it makes her see you as someone who she has under her control. and when a girl feels she has you under her control, it kills every interest she has in you.
Women like men that are in control.
–#1. Never tell a girl how you feel about her TOO EARLY. I will keep saying this. Before you tell a girl how you feel about her you have to be sure she feels two times the same way for you. In eBook, The bang rule, i explained 3 steps you have to take before you let a girl know how you feel about her. follow those 3 steps in the exact way i explained them in the eBook and she would never think of friend zoning you.
– #2 Stop Seeking Her Approval. Even if you did not get any other thing from this article – just get this. I don’t preach disrespecting ladies, but still, guy – you are the man, not she. When you take your whole power as a guy and give it over to her, you are shooting yourself in the leg.
Some of the way most guys make this particular mistake is:
– They call a girl up and beg her to see them. Like, they beg.
– They beg a girl to call them. I overhead a guy saying something like this to a girl on phone one day: “Call me now, you never call me. Call me now”
Haba na. When you BEG a girl for anything you are handing your power to her and girls Never date a guy who is “weak”
In the book I went into details on how to be emotionally superior on Pages 59 – 66. The tips in those pages would ensure that the girls you like would always select you over other guys, These secrets are the same powerful leverage that “players” use to get girls who are dating rich men to cheat on those rich men for them.
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