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Naija Lady Cries: My Husband is pushing me to go for abortion


I wonder why people find it easy to kill a child, the action that you do not know the consequences...
Wife's story: I beg of you to keep all my details private, I don't know what I would do if this portion of my life leaks to the public. 
It pains me to be at such a point that I have to write anonymously into a blog. It's hard because I can't share this with anyone, so I've been battling it alone. 
I met my husband 3 years ago, and we did our traditional marriage this summer. We have not yet done our church wedding. For a while I started noticing a change in my body, and friends kept teasing that I look pregnant. So I decided to take a pregnancy test and discovered that l was pregnant.

I felt a small burst of joy because I had never imagined myself ever being pregnant, but that joy ended quickly because he was not excited and suggested I abort it. He said that he is not ready for a child yet, and that he has so much more he wants to do with his life
I went on to tell him that I am ready and that no matter the circumstance, the baby is already here. He told me that he does not operate like that and that gone are the days when people go on with things because they're already in a situation. 
I started crying and asking him why he would put me through this. Whenever I would try to explain my feelings to him he won't even give me the audience, he has not even made any effort to console me or make me feel better about the situation. 
I finally told him that I will go ahead and abort my baby, but when I do that will be the end of us, because I don't see how someone that claims to love me can put me through such a situation (abortion). I am so drained because I find myself crying and not eating these days. 
I have not told anyone so I am facing this alone. It pains me even more because my husband is the first and only man I've slept with and the first man I've ever loved. I feel like a rejected woman and not a good wife. 
Please someone help me, I need to hear some words of wisdom and advice.

Warning : See The List Of the Deadly Diseases You can get Through Kissing

 
You could be putting yourself in great danger of a deadly diseases by engaging in a kiss with someone especially people you don’t know so well.

You may have heard that the mouth is the dirtiest place in the body; this is because saliva contains numerous microorganisms. Human bites are said to be more dangerous than a dog bites as it contains more bacteria says the CDC. Worldwide there are billions of kisses exchanged by people each year. The air kiss, casual peck on the cheek or the cultured kiss on the hand aren’t much of a threat but a kiss that exchanges saliva from one another is a different matter.
Viruses That Can Be Transmitted by Kissing
Colds: many viruses cause the common cold. It can spread by direct contact with the virus, from airborne droplets, or from direct contact with secretions from the infected person’s nose and throat.

Infectious Mononucleosis: also known as kissing disease is caused by Epstein Barr virus. The virus is spread through saliva and infection occurs through contact.
Herpes Infection: includes varicella zoster (causes chicken pox) and herpes simplex (cold sores in mouth). Herpes is easily spread to others when others when cold sore blisters are forming or have erupted. The virus is shed to others from the site of blisters even when they have healed. So, can you get herpes from kissing: yes.
Hepatitis-B: kissing may also transmit this virus even though it may be contained in higher levels in blood. Infection can occur when infected blood and saliva come into direct contact with someone else’s bloodstream or mucous membrane. A person may be easily infected if they have sores in and around the mouth.
Warts: these can spread through kissing especially if in case of recent trauma. Hand, Foot and Mouth Disease: this is caused by Coxsackie virus and is spread through open sores in the mouth. This infection is common in kids especially those in day care. It is spread via the fecal oral route (maybe while changing diapers)
Bacteria That Can Be Transmitted by Kissing

Meningococcal Disease: this is a life threatening condition which includes meningitis, (inflammation of the membranes that surround the brain and spinal cord) and septicemia. Studies show that deep kissing seems to be one of the risk factors.
Tooth Decay: numerous studies indicate that Streptococcus mutans, the main bacteria implicated with caries is transmissible. Direct contact occurs most commonly via kissing. Indirect contact occurs though shared contaminated objects such as eating utensils, toothbrushes, cups and even toys.
Gum Disease
The American academy of Periodontology says more than 75% of adults over 35 have some form of gum disease. Since gum diseases are considered the equivalent of open wounds kissing or having oral sex when you or your partner had bleeding gums is an invitation for the transmission of unwanted organisms.
There is no need to give up kissing; while disease causing bugs can be transferred during a kiss, most won’t cause the disease and the risk of serious disease is small BUT it may happen. And it’s not all bad.
Research into passionate kissing has uncovered many valuable health benefits. For those who are calorie conscious a 60 second kiss burns 26 calories.
Be conscious to keep your mouth as healthy and germ free as possible everyday. Make sure your partner takes preventive actions too so that you can both enjoy those smooches. Also don’t forget your pet!! When your beloved pet welcomes you home, slobbering your face with kisses, he is also gifting you his germs. Don’t forget to keep his/her mouth healthy too.
Source: WebDental

SEE What Nigerian Women Really Want From Their Man


Female empowerment coach, Rev (Mrs.) Funke Felix-Adejumo has been married to her husband for 31yrs and when she speaks to younger women it is with authority and her experience. She said the key to success in marriage is for the man and woman to accept their roles and play it well, with love:


Many cannot seem to understand their women. What really do women want from their men?

Women want men they can look up to. We want affirmation, validation, someone who will speak highly of us in the public. We want a role model to her children, a friend, a decent man, someone who speak our love language who is responsible enough to take good care of our financial and emotional needs. A real woman want god-fearing man who can defend and stand up to defend her.

Do you believe in the concept of full housewife?

Yes and No. Yes because there may be a season when a woman needs to be a full time housewife for the sake of her children but it should not be the norm.

For women who have issues with their husbands, what is the best way to get good results?
The greatest need of a man is not s ex; he can get that from a prostitute if he’s not born again. It’s not food; he can get that from any good restaurant. A man’s greatest need is respect particularly public respect from his wife.
Some women disrespect their husbands. It’s a man you treat like a king that will treat you like a queen. Give your husband the highest level of respect and honour in your culture and watch him bloom in his love for you.
There’s no honour I will give to any human being on earth that I have not given it to my husband first. After the Lord Jesus Christ, my husband – Felix Remi Adejumo – is the only king in my kingdom and the only emperor in my empire!
– Ladies and married woman who compete for equal rights with man, listen to Funke for your own good!

Do Not Let Anyone Clip Your Wings, Believe In Yourself – Ali Baba

Comedian Ali Baba shares this inspirational message about believing in yourself and not letting anyone clip your wings. He wrote:

The reason some people can never be on their own is because they do not have wings. So you can not even be the winds beneath their wings. They are flightless. You must tell them where to fly to and how to fly there, then give them wings too. If that branch they perch on breaks… Kperen! They are going down. And anything they hold on to goes down with them. It’s the same way, a man who is drowning has nothing to keep them afloat BECAUSE THEY CAN NOT SWIM. Learn to grow wings. Learn to swim. Learn to be self reliant. Learn to fly. Be INDEPENDENT. Let me tell you why some people remain in abusive relationships. The absence of wings. Not love. They are just wingless. That is the same reason, you see some people working with some foreign companies, and are being treated like second class citizens in their own country, yet they can’t walk away from that job, because that job is the only wings they can fly with in these winds of change. Some days ago, a young friend of mine quit her job to face her passion for serving sweets and deserts at events. Wings. The branch of the tree, doesn’t even need to break before you fly. How many times have you been let go in an organization and you move on and your potentials make you a better talent, that you get head hunted again with higher pay and better package than those you left there. Cc #Pogba… Or a lady leaves you and you begin to drown in your self pity because, without her you are nothing. Grow wings man!!!! Don’t let people meet you the way they left you. Upgrade. Stop being a non flying bird. Think of it, what is it that you have that can make you pick up from the biggest crash and climb again? If you don’t have any, that is when you sink with every challenge or when you are abandoned in the oceans of helplessness. Grow wings girlfriend. Don’t let any man clip your wings. Like those men who say you can not work if they marry you. That’s clipping your wings. What did you spend years getting your wings for? C’mon people take flight!


11 Super Qualities That Describe A Husband Material (Must Read)

In the journey of choosing a life partner, below are the qualities you need to watch out for in your man before saying YES to his proposal.


1. Emotional maturity
How well his he able to control his impulse when argument becomes tough between you two? Look for a man who is able to calm himself during stress, disappointment and pressure; a man who would rather not unleash his annoyance on you during this time. He should be able to attend to issues as they come and proffer positive solutions. He must be able to confront challenges in a steady and responsively manner.

2. He shares virtually everything with you
Changing one’s orientation from a particular belief; how you decide to live your life, is why alot of people don’t share their secrets. Besides, it is very difficult to have your mind changed overnight on something you’ve abide to, for a very long time. You know you are making a perfect choice if he’s open to sharing everything with you without reservations.

Most importantly, he looks into the future and share plans and values regarding all that brings happiness into the marriage. He would be careful not to totally take charge of defining how the future ends with you both, by ensuring his plan corresponds with those you have in mind too. When you see a man who’s on the same lane with you, he might just be the one.

3. Must be apologetic
It is easy to spot a man who’s full of himself from a distance. A man who would prefer being nicknamed “tough”, even at the expense of taking your feelings for granted. Study your man, and ensure he feels truly sorry whenever he did something wrong to you or to someone else. A man who would make a great husband, would do all it takes to bring back the smile he caused you to lose.

4. He must be a great motivator
A happy life comes with the feeling of being appreciated. No one knows it all. In this regard, how is he able to appreciate the little you can do perfectly? A husband material will appreciate your good food, embrace you for being so organized, and encourage you from time to time. Ensure your man is capable of making you feel appreciated.

You are most likely to live a happy life when your man is intentionally willing to demonstrate his respect to you, through his actions and words. His level of education does not matter here. If he is able to give indepth recommendations and advice which inturn, helps in making awesome decisions, you can always trust your instincts of leading you to a right choice of man.

5. His ability to maintain healthy conversations
It is okay to disagree with each other once in a while, but how does he handle the scenario? What makes a marriage is the ability of each couple, especially the man, to know his way around conflicts. One who is going to make a great husband should be able to calm a heat conversation.

6. Not prying into your privacy
In real sense, every man must respect your privacy. Digging beyond to know who that text messages and your last call is coming from, as well as trying to know the relationship between you and the sender would only give him a cause to lose trust. Why then would you want to be with a man who doesn’t trust you?

7. What has changed since you met him
It doesn’t matter if you have being with your partner for over 2 years, neither does it matter if your love game is below 2 months. Ask yourself what has changed in your life, or what impact has being in a relationship with him generates. You aimed to being better on the things you can do, but would appreciate being the best at it. What are his contribution towards helping you achieve your objectives?

8. A man who does not restrict you to certain things
You are who you are. Therefore, there shouldn’t be any set rules binding you from doing certain things in the relationship. A man who threatens you with a breakup “if you don’t come spend the weekend” is NOT a husband material! This is the kind who will always have you caged in marriage with a selfish “do” and “don’t” rules.

9. One who respects your family
Started from the bottom, says Drake. It is never too early for a good man, who is willing to become a good husband to show respect to every members of your family.

10. A man who can satisfy you in bed
No no, no way! I can imagine what runs through your head as you see this part. I’m still an advocate of “no s*x before marriage” so it’s not what you think. His ability to satisfy you in bed goes beyond intimacy alone. He should be able to do the things you derive pleasure from. If he is able to satisfy you in bed, you won’t have to get such happiness anywhere else. Do you understand? *Winks

11. Must take your relationship seriously.
Be careful about making decisions around this reason. Men huzzles. They work and get paid to be able to fund some personal bills. All the same, a man should be there for his partner when he is needed. He must place issues regarding your relationship on priority. Relationship is time and commitment. Both works hand in hand.


Ladies, Don’t Be Deceived! These Are 6 Definite Signs Your Man Thinks Your V*gina Smells

Here are some surefire signs that he just may think your v*gina smells.

1. He doesn’t go down on you.

Body odor is very touchy subject for many to address, especially when it comes to s*xual health. We’d not want to go down on someone who smells, and they feel the same about us. Odor = kills the mood. How can you tell? But a sign that a guy may think a woman’s v**ina smells is the avoidance of going down, especially if he has done it before.

2. s*x happens very infrequently.

You used to have s*x ALL THE TIME, and now, all of the sudden, it’s reached an anemic rate. You are ready to take your vibrator out to dinner, because it’s giving you far more orgasms than your guy. Sometimes avoiding s*x altogether is a possible sign that he thinks her v**ina smells. Men have a few reasons why they would avoid s*x, and body odor is a definite reason.

3. He stops in his tracks.

Things ARE hot and heavy. He’s into it. He’s texting you all day about how into it he is, and then, in the heat of the moment…he stops.

4. He cuts right to s*x.

So, he’s about to go down on you, he’s making that downward trek, and then pops up again. Wait, what? What happened? He talks about how bad he wanted to go down on you all day, then he finally does and comes right back up to spit on it and slips his cock in instead.

5. He uses his hand or toys instead of his mouth.

If he suddenly stops using his tongue and replaces it with his hand or a s*x toy, and tries to act nonchalant about it, he’s trying to avoid telling you that your v**ina smells.

6. He tells you straight up.

Yes, it’s mortifying but it has happened. He may tell you it smells “different” than his ex. But make sure he means that in a good way.

– Information Nigeria


Ladies, Be Careful! If Your Man Can't Pass These 2 Easy Tests, He's Not Into You...Run Away Fast


Some relationships are just not right and will end up in the wrong direction. These are certain signs your man is not the one you seek. 




Ladies, to skip over the dud relationships and find the right man, here are the questions you MUST start asking yourself while dating. These TWO questions will help you know where you stand with him quickly.
1. How much does he want to show you off in public?
Guys are extremely competitive, so it only makes sense that we want to show off something (or, in this case … someone) we are proud of to the world, right?
If I buy myself a new Ferrari, you can bet I’m going to announce it to all my friends, their friends and any strangers who show interest. If I don’t, there is something wrong. If you rank on his list — you should be his new Ferrari.

This is a simple and highly effective first test of how “into you” he really is (or isn’t).
2. How eager is he to spend time with you when there is zero chance of getting s*x?
Put him to this test. If he’s really interested in you, he’ll jump at the chance to spend time with you (not just late at night when s*x is likely).
Other ways to test his real interest in you include asking him to drive you to the airport, or meet him for lunch with your Mom.
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- Information Nigeria

Help! My Hot Aunt is Begging Me to Have S*x with Her and Get Her Pregnant

I am in a serious fix now. I am just 19 years and not looking bad. But, my mother’s sister wants me to get her pregnant because her husband can’t have children.

She's very hot and I don't know what decision to take. She has been begging me and saying that we will keep it secret. She says no one will know about it and that I am helping the family.

I’m so confused right now. What do I do?


Top 5 Unnecessary Things Warri Girls Do in Relationships...No.4 Will Blow Your Mind!

Warri, a popular city in Nigeria’s southern region is one place to find very beautiful and attractive women if you are in search for one. Not only are they physically endowed, they tend to be the “ride or die” chick that most guys look for.


As expected, these girls are not a 100% perfect as there are certain things they do in relationships that are completely unnecessary and even a little cruel. Visiting Warri and looking to date a girl from the city? you may want to check out Jumia Travel’s list of 5 unnecessary things Warri girls do in relationships.

1. Demanding freebies from the man
Warri girls rarely ever plan to spend any of their own money on drinks at the bar or club. Instead, they count on their feminine wiles to convince guys to shell out for their libations. Likewise, when they are in a relationship, even if they are truly and genuinely in love with their partners, they expect to get freebies such as salon/hair money, cab fare, e.t.c.

2. Buying Presents for His Relatives
Warri girls tend to believe that a great way to get a man to commit is to ensure his family accepts and loves them. In a bid to secure their position as the favored “wife”, they tend to buy presents for the guy’s parents, siblings, and relatives. This is really unnecessary though as in reality, a man’s commitment is never based on how close you are to his family or how much investment you have made financially.

3. Wearing the Jersey of his Sports Team
Really? It is not uncommon to find a Warri girl who has no clue about football or who secretly loathes watching the game wearing the jersey of a football club with a random dude’s name on the back just because it’s her boyfriend’s club. Even worse is when they actually have a favorite team and instead don the colors of their man’s obsession because he asked them to

4. Staying Overnight at His Place Every day
The Warri girl wants to ensure she knows every activity the man has lined up and so rather than just spend the weekends with him, they include weekdays. They suffer the stress of preparing an overnight bag every single day. In fact, some just move in and redecorate. This is really unnecessary. Moving in with a guy before you are married is not a huge motivating factor for a Warri man or even any man who wants to fully commit to the relationship or move it forward.

5. Beat up the other girl or their boyfriend
This is rather cruel but is a common occurrence with Warri girls in relationships. In the case where their partner cheats on them, they track down whoever he cheated with and beat up the girl or in some cases beat both the girl and their boyfriends up. Most of them do not hesitate to inflict any kind of physical pain on their partners without fear of repercussion. This is highly unnecessary, though, as the best solution to a cheating partner is usually to leave him.

Credits: Vanguard


Must You Marry? – Charly Boy Replies Pastor Adeboye In New Article

Some days ago, the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Pastor E.A Adeboye, who is currently having a 7-days event at the headquarters of the church in Lagos, counselled the youths of his church on marriage and relationship saying;

"Don’t marry a girl simply because she can sing! In the choir there are some people that can sing but they are fallen angels! Marry a prayer warrior! If a girl cannot pray for one hour, don’t marry her.

"Don’t marry a girl who is lazy! Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook, she needs to know how to do chores and cook because you cannot afford to be eating out all the time."

In a new article titled "Must you Marry?", veteran Nigerian musician, Charles Oputa, popularly known as Charly Boy, has replied the cleric.

Read below;

Must you Marry?

For the past few days, pastor Adeboye’s advice to youths on marriage have been trending all over the place. I suspect that the good pastors yarns tells me that he is a man suspended in time, between old and new school. Don’t get it twisted, in as much as I flow with his definition of a good woman, from his statement I see that the obvious way to his heart is through his stomach and of cause through prayers. Good, No wahala.

However our amiable pastor rubs it in when he starts to yarn Akpata, ” Marry a warrior, if a girl cannot pray for one hour, don’t marry her. Don’t marry a girl who is lazy, who cannot cook. She needs to know how to do chores and cook because you cannot afford to eat out at all times” Hummm na wa! Really? Seriously?

So if my wife to be can’t rant, chant, shout and generally carry on as a prayer warrior, praying for a whole hour, the woman doesn’t deserve a wife status. Abi?

Oga pastor, that one na missyarn. Over praying does not make one a better husband or wife, because the world especially Naija is filled with Fake people and “Fakest” pastors. Does a man having a job guarantee that he will make a good husband? Does a woman knowing how to cook guarantee she will make a good wife? Haba.

Ok I get it, The Nigerian god has an ear infection, so we must shout and pray for hours because that’s the only way he may listen to our prayers, right? I know that a man is suppose to marry a helper and not a cook or a house girl. By the way, is anything wrong with encouraging your young male congregation to learn how to cook and do chores too.

“Do not marry a worldly lady” what the heck does that mean? Is it about being materialistic or just being fashionable, looking nice. I guess in your book we can’t be a good Christian if we got swagg and we are trendy. Judge not pastor. We must all not look like Deeper Life people to have a personal relationship with God. By the way, if you want to start writing your own commandment you may as well write your own version of the bible for your congregation. Na una way.

Being married should never define a man or a woman. Marriage in a few years anyways, will be out of fashion. Being married is only nice if we are lucky to pick a partner who will be our friend, if not, that maybe hell on earth. All of us must not get married if our threshold for nonsense and garbage is low. The world is obviously changing and we are no longer in the 60s. Who wants to be suffering and smiling. Most importantly marriage should not be a milestone for anyone. Yes o.

Like I always say, it will take two to tango. Marriage only works when partners are determined to make it work. It can never be a merit badge, or a status for happiness. Many of us are enslaved in our myopic mindset that makes a mess out of what should really be a good friendship. So Oga pastor Adeboye, watch your yarns because a lot of people lookup to you, Biko. I don talk my own.



Uche Jombo Wants To Lose Weight!


Uche Jumbo has lifted the lid on her worst kept secret since giving birth to her son – her belly!
The actress, whose body size was once her most famous asset, admitted recently that she has been adding lots of weight, prompting rumours of another pregnancy which she has denied for several months.

To set the record straight, the 36-year-old has decided to shut those rumors by putting much thought into her plan to shrink belly fat and achieve a specific body goal.

In a new post shared on her Instagram page, the mother-of-one lamented about being a little heavier with plans to hit her goal weight in a couple of weeks. She even requested for tips from her female fans who have tried the method.
“Finally my flat tummy tea has just arrived! Been so bloated lately I thought I would give it a try and see if it actually works – I’ll keep you posted! Have any of you girls tried it? Any tips for me?” she wrote.

Couple Caught Through An Office Window Having Sex On duty And this happened (Photos)

A couple’s late night steamy ‘sexcapade’ has gone viral after a teenage Pokemon Go player stumbled across their X-rated session in the window of an office building. Blurry footage captured the pair in flagrante from outside a consultancy firm in the Dominican Republic capital of Santo Domingo.

However the secretary who has been named online as the woman enjoying the ardent liaison is furious and denies any connection with the amorous pair and intends to sue.

Enraged Diana Paulino lodged a formal complaint with the police and said on local television: ‘My initial reaction was one of alarm at how I could be linked to the woman in this video. ‘I have got absolutely nothing to do with the company where the video was filmed.’

To back up her claim she added: ‘The video shows the silhouette of a young woman whose bust is approximately a cup size A whereas I am a DD.
‘Everyone who knows me immediately ruled out the fact it was me on that basis and said it couldn’t be Diana.’

Paulino has complained that since being named she has had to confine herself to her apartment, turn off her mobile and close her Facebook account.


From Hawking in Enugu to Running a Business with Don Moen - Frank Edwards Shares Story

Gospel Singer, Frank Edwards, has shared the emotional story of how he moved from hawking on the streets in Enugu to starting a business with leading Gospel musician Don Moen. 





Multi-award winning Nigerian contemporary Christian singer, Frank Ugochukwu Edwards, simply known as Frank Edwards, has shared the story of how he moved from hawking on the streets in Enugu to starting a business with world's leading Gospel musician, Don Moen.
The gospel sensation also tells of how he refused to compromise on the standards God has set for him, his past projects and his hopes for the future.
Watch below and get inspired;

The Crazy & Nasty Things Horny Women Do

A new study has revealed that women tend to more nasty and unbelievable things when they are really horny.
S*x may be one of life’s great pleasures, but it also involves a lot that normally might gross people out — sweat, bodily fluids and body odor, for starters.
A small Dutch study, released Wednesday, set out to identify the psychology that leads women to willingly, and even enthusiastically, engage in sexual activities despite the ick factor. The results, published online in the journal PLoS ONE, indicate that arousal overrides feelings of disgust and facilitates a woman’s desire to do something that a woman who is not aroused might find flat-out repulsive.
Women [who] were sexually aroused were more willing to touch and do initially D!sgust!ng tasks,” study co-author Charmaine Borg, a researcher in the department of clinical psychology and experimental psychopathology at the University of Groningen in The Netherlands, told The Huffington Post.

Borg and her colleagues separated 90 female university students into three equal groups: one watched “female friendly erotica;” one watched a video of extreme sports meant to get them excited, but in a non-sexual way; and one watched a video of a train, meant to elicit a neutral response.
The women were then given 16 tasks, most of them unappealing. They were asked to take a sip from a cup of juice that had a large (fake) insect in it, to wipe their hands with a used tissue and to take a bite from a cookie that was sitting next to a living worm. The women were also asked to perform several s*x-related tasks, like lubricating a vibrator.
Women in the “aroused group” said they found both the unpleasant tasks and the sex-related tasks less D!sgust!ng than women in the other groups. They also completed the highest percentage of the activities, suggesting that sexual arousal not only decreases feelings of disgust, but directly affects what women are willing to do, the study shows.
Daniel R. Kelly, an associate professor of philosophy at Purdue University and author of the book “Yuck! The Nature and Moral Significance of Disgust” who was not involved in the study, explained that disgust is an “extension of our immune system” that helps prevent people from getting infected by making them wary of things, like bodily fluids, that potentially carry disease or make people vulnerable.
“Disgust is an emotion,” he explained. “What it’s there for, primarily, is to protect us against eating things that might poison us, or coming into close physical proximity to things that might carry infections. That’s its mission.”
David Buss, a professor of psychology at the University of Texas Austin and author of “Why Women Have S*x,” called disgust a “huge issue for women.”
“Women show far more disgust and especially sexual disgust, than men,” he said.
Buss concurred with Kelly that the findings are evidence of what “is very likely an evolved psychological defense.”
“It helps to protect women from having s*x with the wrong men, such as men who might communicate diseases, men who show signs of a high ‘parasite load,’ men who have poor hygiene and so on,” he said.

What is interesting about the new Dutch paper, the two experts agreed, is that it suggests the mission to avoid the potentially “dangerous” parts of sex takes a backseat when women are aroused. “Sexual arousal can override disgust,” Buss said.
That not only suggests a potential reason why a woman might engage in behaviors that she wouldn’t if she weren’t turned on, it might also provide insights into how low-sexual arousal feeds sexual dysfunctions in women, the study’s authors argue.

“These findings indicate that lack of sexual arousal may interfere with functional s*x, as it may prevent the reduction of disgust and disgust-related avoidance tendencies,” Borg explained, saying she hopes the findings prompt further research in this area.

Be Careful! These Are 7 Ways Sex Can (And Will) Land You In The Hospital

S*x is amazing but it can also be dangerous especially if you engage in it using the wrong styles.
Yes, that’s right, s*x can land you in A&E.
As one couple in Italy recently found out, you practically take your lives in your hands when you do the nasty.
The pair had been at it in the ocean and became stuck together due to suction, meaning they had to be taken to hospital to separate them.
But frankly they got off lightly.
There’s a lot worse that could happen to you while you’re at it. Like any one of these –
1. You snap your ‘bango string’
Aka your frenulum – the piece of skin linking the foreskin to the Pen!s.
It’s probably your own fault for getting carried away while she attempts reverse cowgirl on the beach (a University of Maryland study found these kinds of injury are linked to ‘unconventional locations’).
It probably looks worse than it is but for God’s sake go to the hospital.
2. You bleed after s*x
Ladies, we’ve all been there.
Your period isn’t due for another 10 days but you get spotting after / the next day.
If he’s frankly too big and you got a bit enthusiastic it can cause vaginal tears.
Don’t worry, they’ll heal up on their own. Go slower next time and use lube.
That said, if there’s a lot of blood or this happens often, go to your GP as this can, in rare instances, be a sign of cervical cancer.
3. You get something stuck 
Ok, so you and your partner have been getting weird with a sex toy / food / some conveniently-shaped piece of kitchenware.
Then it gets lost/stuck.
The more you stress the worse it will be, not helped by the fact that, if we’re talking ass, the sphincter can become tightened and the colon can create a suction effect.
Have a warm bath, try to get it out with lube, if that doesn’t work go to A&E.
Then, if it was a really weird object you got stuck, tell us about it, obviously.
4. You accidentally dislocate someone’s arm
What? This can happen.
5. You accidentally elbow him in the face
What? This can also happen.
6. You have abdominal pains…
Because you’ve been using a potato as contraception. 
Condoms, kids, condoms.
7. You go the full Suarez
Biting and sex can be fun. But not if you get carried away… to A&E.

Rock Your Dress And Sneakers In These Amazing Ways



Dresses and sneakers are perfect combo when combined in the right way. Ladies, let us teach you how!
1. The perfect trio; blazer, dress and sneakers.
2. Mini dress and sneakers on the go!
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3. Perfect way to rock your denim jacket on a dress, the sneakers are a plus.
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4. Ankara fabric and sneakers.

15 Reasons People Don’t Like You

While hate is a strong word and best reserved for things like racism and bigotry, there are plenty of things that can bring about a deep dislike for someone. Here are 15 of the most common.
1. You lack manners.
Whether it’s chewing with your mouth open (gross), not saying “thank you,” or showing a serious lack of respect for waiters, rude people go from hot to ugly quick. If you can’t eat like a decent human being or treat others like one, lock yourself in your apartment and stay home alone.
2. You curse excessively.
There are times when a solid “AF” comes in handy, but if your F-bombing makes your conversations look like a war zone, you’re not only going to come across as unintelligent, but also turn people off quickly.
3. You have a sense of entitlement.
Is there anything worse than someone who walks through life feeling as though they are owed “the best of the best” just because they were born special? Ingratitude + laziness = lame.
4. You are never curious.
About others… about the world…
5. You’re incredibly selfish.
It’s not all about you, but if you think it is, we have a few guarantees: you’re a bad lover, a sh*t friend, and irritate the hell out of your coworkers.
6. You have poor hygiene.
You don’t want to be that coworker that everyone talks about (and smells) because you refuse to use deoderant, brush your teeth, or wash your clothes.
7. You spew negativity.
Misery loves company, but happy people find constant moaning and complaining toxic and unproductive. If you’re more apt to show why something won’t work or will never work out, you’re draining.
8. You’re unsupportive.
Being in relationships with others is a blessing, and part of being in a good one is the feeling that there’s someone in your life who has your back and cares about what matters most to you. Just because you’re not interested in something doesn’t make it unimportant, so show your friends and loved ones that you’re rooting for them and are there to listen. If you don’t, you might find that people stop being there for you.
9. You act crazy competitive.
Hey, we all love a little friendly competition, but if you’re constantly one-upping everything from accomplishments to hardships, it’s going to make you look like a weirdo. Want to look like a weirdo? OK then. Knock that sh*t off.
10. You ONLY text.
You know what’s better than 100 words? One action.
11. You always talk sh*t.
Everyone dishes the dirt every now and then, but if you’re running from one person to another making announcements, you’re eroding your own reputation.
12. You never pay people back.
No one forgets when they owe someone money and they sure as hell don’t forget when money is owed.
13. You’re a tentative plan-maker with no wiggle room.
We all have limited time in this busy adult world. Expecting people to “wait and see” if they should count on you to grace them with your presence if something better doesn’t come along is obnoxious.
14. You troll Facebook and instagram.
Do you really need to write inflammatory things under the posts of your so-called friends in order to get a few moments of attention? If the answer is yes, we suggest you get a hobby.
15. You lie.
No trust, no time for you.

This Vitamin Boosts Erections and Helps You Perform Better in Bed



According to a report posted by Dailystar, it is goodnews for some men as one vitamin that could help boost erections and make you perform better in bed has been unveiled.
Not being able to get it up is a common problem, but it means you could be suffering from erectile dysfunction (ED).
We all know that popping a little blue pill works as an antidote for a floppy penis but you might actually be lacking a natural erection-boosting nutrient.
Lads with low levels of the sunshine are more likely to have penis performance issues, as getting more vitamin D can boosts your erection and performance between the sheets. 
ED affects half of all men between the ages of 40 and 70, but researchers from the University of Milan in Italy found that having a vitamin D deficiency can increase your risk of erection issues.
The team tested 143 erectile dysfunction sufferers and discovered nearly half of them had low levels of the sunshine vitamin and only a fifth had optimal levels.
Men with the most extreme cases of ED had 24% less vitamin D than lads with mild erection problems. But this wasn’t the only study to notice a link between trouble getting it up and the natural nutrient.
Scientists at Johns Hopkins University studied 3,400 healthy Americans and those who had a vitamin D deficiency were nearly a third more likely to have issues with getting hard.
Study author Dr. Erin Michos said: "Vitamin D deficiency is easy to screen for and simple to correct with lifestyle changes that include exercise, dietary changes, vitamin supplementation and modest sunlight exposure.


"Checking vitamin D levels may turn out to be a useful tool to gauge ED risk. The most relevant clinical question then becomes whether correcting the deficiency could reduce risk and help restore erectile dysfunction.”
If boosting your erection wasn’t reason enough to stock up on vitamin D, health officials advised today that everyone should be swallowing the supplements in autumn and winter.
You can get a little bit of vitamin D from foods like oily fish, eggs and cereals but for most people the bulk of their vitamin D comes from sunlight.
But since it’s dark towards the end of the year, scientists have now suggested everyone over the age of one should be getting 10 micrograms of vitamin D every day to protect bone and muscle health.
Dr Louis Levy told BBC Radio 4: "Previously we felt that everybody would get enough from the sunlight.

"This is a change in advice, previously we have said that babies from six months to five years should have a supplement and only those people at risk of deficiency should take a supplement.

"This is new advice based on evidence looked at over the last five years."
But why do men need this vitamin for good penis function? 
It’s because vitamin D plays a role in improving endothelial cell function and forming nitric oxide, a molecule that helps blood vessels function properly.
Nitric oxide allows blood vessels in the penis to relax which increases blood flow and causes an erection, so if there’s not enough it means getting stiff becomes a problem.
The blood vessels in your penis are very small, only one or two millimetres in diameter, so they can also easily get blocked by plaque caused by factors like a poor diet, lack of exercise, smoking, age or genetics.
Although it might be embarrassing you shouldn’t ignore penis problems because ED is typically linked to larger health problems.
Being unable to get hard is often a sign that your heart isn’t very healthy because poor cardiovascular health is the most common cause of ED.
Sometimes it’s also a symptom of health conditions like diabetes, high cholesterol or high blood pressure. It can affect anyone, either as a one-off or reoccurring problem.
The penis issue, which can be psychological or physical, can also be linked with fatigue, stress, anxiety or depression.
Speaking exclusively to Dailystar.co.uk, Dr Pixie McKenna, Superdrug’s Health and Wellbeing ambassador, said:"Research has suggested that men who have low levels of Vitamin D are more likely to suffer from impotence.

"It is important to stress that this is an association and does not imply every man with ED is vitamin D deficient or vice versa. 

"Supplementing Vitamin D may have much greater impact beyond the bedroom as emerging evidence suggests it has a protective role in everything from cancer to multiple sclerosis. So the sunshine vitamin is not just one for the boys.

"Diet alone won't give you enough vitamin D so your resources need to be topped up through safe sun exposure or supplements."

The celebrity GP added: “Your ED could be a symptom of an underlying medical issue that is yet to be diagnosed.

“If you already have a diagnosis of heart disease or diabetes make sure it is being optimally managed.

“If you haven't had a health check for a while then book in for a screen. They are free through the NHS to the over 40s.”