How Anita Joseph begged for money at airport

Actress Anita Joseph has narrated how she was forced to beg for money at an aurport recently, calling it one of her most embarasing moments ever.According to her, she had a meal and wanted to pay using an ATM but it didn't work ,so she was forced to beg.She told Vanguard

“I never believed I would have to ever beg for money in my entire life but it happened to me this unforgettable and embarrassing day at the airport”Jesus, I was so embarrassed. I was at the airport and needed to use the ATM, because I didn’t have a dime on me.

But for some reason the ATM didn’t work and I couldn’t withdraw any money. This is after I had eaten at a restaurant at the airport and needed to pay. I looked around to see if I could spot anyone I know, until my instinct told me I had no choice but to beg. The mere thought of it made me cringe with horror. Me, Nita, to beg? It was inconceivable and unimaginable but it was the only reality staring me in the face or I had to face bigger embarrassment from the restauranteurs,”
  According to her, holding her breath, she approached a guy and to her utter amazement the response she got left her even more breathless.
“ You mean you are an actress and you don’t have any money on you and you depend on ATM. Na Wa for una” the guy barked at her. “I was almost in tears and my flight was already boarding. I approached another guy and told him the same story and what he said was another shock to my soul. He asked me who I am and said ‘ are you doing this? I told him I am a Nigerian actress but he replied that he doesn’t watch Nigerian films. To my surprise he gave me the money and behold one of my movies was showing at the lounge, she recounted bitterly.

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Lagos Ranked World’s Third Worst City to Live in...The first five will shock you

Lagos has been ranked the third worst city to live in the world,maintaining its 2015 position on the Global Liveability index according to the 2016 ranking by the Economist Intelligence Unit released yesterday.

Lagos placed 138th out of the 140 cities ranked in the latest liveability survey, just above war-ravaged Tripoli and Damascus.
The report listed Boko Haram as one of the factors  contributing to the instability in Lagos,,

“Continued threats from groups like Boko Haram acts as a constraint to improving stability in Lagos.”
The top five best countries to live in, according to the report,are Melbourne, Australia; Vienna, Austria; Vancouver, Canada; Toronto, Canada; and Calgary, Canada.
The survey arrives at the ranking by assessing which locations around the world provide the best or the worst living conditions across five broad categories,stability, healthcare, culture and environment, education, and infrastructure.
Of the five categories, Lagos scored highest in culture and environment, followed by infrastructure. It scored lowest in stability.
Three other African cities joined Lagos at the bottom , with Douala, Cameroun; Harare, Zimbabwe; and Algiers, Algeria; ranking 132nd, 133rd, and 134th respectively.
No African city made it to the top 10 most liveable cities.

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See what this groom was made to do to his bride at their wedding ...So Much Funny

Photos of this couple's wedding has gone viral after the groom,Akin was made to kiss his bride,Yemisi's butt.. The Yoruba traditional wedding took place in Festac,Lagos..

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How To Find & Get People's Mobile Phone Numbers Online

Some times tracking down someone’s mobile phone number can be difficult, if not impossible. But it does not mean it is not achievable. According to About, while mobile phone numbers are notoriously tricky to look up, there are a couple of tricks you can use. Here are a few:

Use search engine
If you have a phone number, enter it into your favourite search engine and see what comes up. If the mobile phone number you are looking for has ever been entered somewhere on the Web – a blog, a public job profile – it will show up and you’ll be able to identify the owner.

Use social media
There are literally hundreds of millions of people who are active on various social networking sites all over the world. Many people share their phone numbers on these sites. Simply type the person’s name into the site’s search function and see what comes back.

Search across websites for the same username

Usernames, individual identification codes/names of people accessing a computer, network, or website, are useful tracking tools for phone numbers. Since many people use the same username across multiple sites, you can sometimes get their phone numbers by simply typing that username into your favourite search engine. If the person has entered in their phone number somewhere on the Web underneath their username, it will come up in a search engine query.

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10 Types of Men Women Should Never Tolerate

here are the kind of guys you definitely should not put up with when it comes to relationships:

1. The noncommittal type

Not being able to commit to just you is a bad sign. It could mean a couple of things, all of which aren’t what you want. Another option is that he’s using you. He enjoys the attention and physical closeness, but that’s all he’s interested in. If this is the case, it’s probably time for a serious talk.

2. The angry type

You know, the guys that absolutely flip out over the most insignificant things. Constantly yelling at you is not appropriate. If he doesn’t handle conflict appropriately, it’s probably a good idea to steer clear until he shapes up.

3. The put-downers

You’re always the b*tt of a joke or the object of his disapproval. Don’t put up with a man that is always putting you down. He may not even notice or it may just be his “sense of humor.” Even if that’s true – especially if that’s true – he needs to change. Don’t put up with mistreatment.

4. The non-cummunicative type

Communication is absolutely, positively, irrevocably essential in a relationship. I cannot stress this point enough. If he is unwilling to communicate with you, it’s time for a talk. He should be capable and willing to talk to you about his feelings (even though men generally hate it). He should talk to you about concerns, successes and all that personal stuff.

5. The abusive type

This is a no-brainer. Abuse is completely unacceptable. Yes, there is always a place for forgiveness and progress – but that’s a situation you’re going to have to figure out with your significant other and someone more qualified than me. Be careful not to lie to yourself about the severity of the situation.

6. The unsatisfiable type

These are the guys that are constantly comparing you to other women. It seems like no matter how hard you try or how amazing you truly are, you’re never quite enough for him. He’s never satisfied with you. He destroys your self esteem. You feel horrible around him. The truth is, you’re amazing. He’s just a jerk.

7. The materialistic type

If he’s more in love with himself than he is with you, he might fit in this category. The consequences of materialism and narcissism become evident with time – and they’re not pretty. This is basically the adult version of that popular kid in high school that never ended up doing anything with his life. Make sure his priorities are straight before taking your relationship to the next level.

8. The manipulative type (the control freak)

Don’t play that game. If you notice him trying to manipulate your feelings, call him out on it. Guilt trips are inappropriate. Manipulators too often turn into control freaks, so unless you’d like to sacrifice your free will and your identity for this guy, avoid the manipulators.

9. The stalker type

This is the guy that is absolutely and overwhelmingly obsessed with you. He has to keep tabs on you all day, every day. He’s always with you, but even when he’s not, he still knows exactly what you’ve been up to. If he would tone things back to an attachment level five that would be cute, but he’s over 9,000 right now. Your man needs to respect that you’ve still got your own life to live, and he needs to chill out.

10. The jealous type

The stalker type and the jealous type usually come as a package deal. You can’t so much as look in the same direction as another guy without him freaking out. He forces you to completely cut off contact with your male friends, even though you know they pose no threat. Avoid that guy.

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Meet The Girl Who Sneezes 8,000 Times A Day

A desperate mother is pleading for help for her 9 year-old daughter who has started sneezing 8,000 times a day.

Ira Saxena who lives in Colchester, Essex in England is said to have started sneezing three weeks ago and the frequency of the sneezing has been so bad that it has forced her to stop going to school as the only time Ira stops sneezing is when she is asleep.

Her parents have been to doctors, specialists and even a hypnotherapist to know the cause, but no one has been able to diagnose her condition.

Her mum, Priya, said, “We have tried everything, anti-histamines, oral and nasal sprays, we have tried steroids, she is on antibiotics, penicillin, then we have just tried homeopathic medicine. 

“She has just had hypnotherapy, her teacher gave her hypnotherapy as she is qualified. 

“And in that session, which was an hour long she didn’t sneeze, which makes us think it is something to do with the brain.

“This is robbing her of her life. 

“It is so frustrating as she is being so brave.”

Her family have even timed the sneezes on their phones to work out the frequency. They calculated Ira does it up to 8,000 times a day.

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Drama as Two Secondary School Students are Caught Fondling and Smooching Themselves at Night

Two Secondary School students are being to answer after they were caught smooching in a dark place.

Two prefects of WBM Zion SHS, a secondary school popularly known as Great AMEZSS in Akyem Tafo in the Eastern Region of Ghana, have been suspended by the school authorities for allegedly playing romance in the dark. 

 

According to Adom Online, the two accused, School Prefect (Male) and Prep Prefect (Female) were caught in an obscure place in the school’s compound at night in a compromised position contrary to school regulations. 

 

The news of the two respected prefects being sanctioned for their shameful conduct got the students shocked as they saw the accused as two disciplined role models. 

 

The school’s authorities have however dismissed allegations of the two having sexual intercourse as is being peddled about on campus. 

 

The headmaster of the School, John Kofi Beantey insists the sex allegation involving the duo are concocted, malicious and must be treated with the contempt that it deserves. 

 

According to the school authorities, the two students who have been sent home will be allowed to write their examination which starts on Monday prior to vacation, but added that they will be made to continue with their suspension when school resumes next term.

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Interesting! Checkout 6 Reasons Why Women Desire S*x More Often than Men

It has been said that woman love s*x more than men do and these reasons will explain why that is so.

Men talk and think a lot about s*x while women desire it more often. We explore the reasons.

 

Gone are the days when ‘demanding s*x’ was considered exclusively a man’s forte. Today women demand s*x greater than men. And they have no qualms about getting vocal about it.

 

“I read these funny E-mail forwards that stress on men begging for sex and women denying it. It sounds so funny to me. It’s totally the opposite in my case. While men can have a good laugh over it believing that this notion exists, I literally have to seduce my husband to get him hooked on to the act,” quips production assistant Megha Mehra. And she is not alone. Many girls/women had a similar story.

 

Women from different backgrounds was asked some questions to figure out what is making them addicted to s*x.

 

1. It’s physically pleasurable

 

Amongst all the other reasons to remain glued to sex, this is the most prominent one. Good s*x satisfies your physical urge, which is very normal for anyone to experience. Psychologist Seema Naina opines, “S*x is the most basic need of any person. And I am increasingly getting cases where women are complaining that men are unable to satisfy their physical needs.”

 

2. Creates positive feelings about oneself

 

Ideally, great s*x means you are enjoying the sexual act and participating equally. It makes you feel good about yourself, thus adding to your self esteem. Shares housewife Neelam Nehra, “When my husband comes back from a whole day at work and we have our sack session, it increases my self esteem. The very feeling that I am able to satisfy him is a great pleasure. And since I never want to go out of shape to look unappealing to my husband (and other men), it even acts as a motivation to work out and feel desirable.” Wondering why?

 

“Sex has healing powers. It generates positive emotions and makes one feel more confident. When a woman sees her man passionate in the act, admiring her body and moves, it infuses a lot of good feelings within her,”opines psychologist Sunaina Bajaj.

 

3. Brings them closer to their man

 

Physical intimacy releases hormone Oxytocin, which is also known as the love hormone. Agrees relationship expert Vandana Mitra, “I have always maintained that couples should never take sex casually. It’s a very important ingredient for any relationship to sustain. It helps couples to nurture the relationship and strengthen the bond.” So whoever said having more sex with your partner means lesser cases of infidelity, made sense.

 

Content developer Prachi Sinha states, “I feel a major connect with my boyfriend after we make love. I just feel like being close to him. My faith in him and our relationship grows stronger.” Prachi’s boyfriend agrees, “When she told me about the 7 days a week sex, I initially could not stop laughing. I mean, this is not the only thing we have to do. But honestly it has got us closer. I just can’t take my eyes off her even when we are moving in a crowd.”

 

4. Negates unwanted emotions/ Stress-reliever

 

Sex is not just a physical sensation but it’s comforting and relaxing. Call centre executive Neetu Sharma shares her experience, “Whenever I have a bad day at work, s*x really helps me unwind. It totally takes the stress out of my mind and makes me feel relaxed and rejuvenated.” Psychologist Reena Kapur explains why. “S*x involves a lot of deep breathing and touching and the hormones that are released during the act calm you down.”

 

5. Great form of exercise

 

Thirty minutes of sex burns more than 85 calories. We have read it almost everywhere that sex helps in burning calories. Confirms fitness consultant Stuti Batra, “While I do not suggest giving up work outs, doubling up the session makes you drop more weight.” While this is the most deadly mix, many girls are seriously taking to it. “It may sound a little funny, but while making love I prefer to play the dominant role. It helps me burn greater calories, leaving my guy in ecstasy,” says Payal Verma.

 

7. Invokes passion

 

“Sometimes I feel like a pervert, because I find myself always thinking about my boyfriend, and what we did the night before. It gives me a kick and makes me crave for our next sack session. He thinks I am crazy, but it really happens to me,” shares call centre executive Richa Sharma.

 

“It is completely normal to fantasise about sex. But I have heard it can freak a guy out- we men are still adapting to the concept of women demanding sex more than us. But we love that passion,” admits psychologist Prateek.

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Dear Women, It's Time to Adjust... Money Is Getting Scarce

I talked about this issue with a few persons last week, so as soon as I saw this piece I just thought I should share with you all. Things are truly difficult these days, even "rich" people are complaining. The number of relatives asking you for help has increased, but the value of your Naira is going down.

Wives and girlfriends should adjust so they don't have financial fights with their man. Many of the men who used to spend without thinking twice are changing, now you have to calculate. Price of food stuffs have hit the roof, daily essentials becoming a luxury. This piece will help everyone:

Written by Mrs. Bunmi Sofoola
The problems of high inflation is not ONLY on the working class and the poor to tighten their financial belts.  According to Laz, a chartered accountant: “A lot of rich men’s net worth have decreased considerably in the last few years, and most of them are worried about the effect on their wives and children.

These days, the average ‘rich’ man is doing all he could to hide his fall in fortune by taking on debt to pay for his wife’s extravagant clothes and trips to visit the kids in schools abroad. I’ve literally had to sit some men who are my clients down and tell them they had to tell their wives to stop spending so much. The ones who’d managed to land second wives (and side girlfriends) with champagne tastes are scared such wives could leave when their financial situation changes so drastically.

"The wealthy seldom speak publicly about their finances, in good times or bad. But, my colleagues who provide services to the wealthy tell me they are getting an earful about their clients’ financial anxieties. That their clients are definitely living on considerable less than they did a couple of years ago. These financial problems – if they can be called that – will hardly elicit tears from the rest of us who truly know where the shoes pinch, but there really is a quiet nervousness about keeping up appearances amongst the rich. The money is there alright, but its buying power is limp!”

And with a lot of political lepers now littering the streets, the fear of inflation and lack of ready ‘national cake’ portions is an issue. “Apart from the fear of the spouses doing a runner when they discover that their net worth has collapsed, friends and business associates (more like fair weasther friends) could avoid socialising with them when they are broke. And these snubs could trickle down to their children who might not get invited to posh birthday parties if they switch schools!”, said Laz.

These poor-rich dudes are addressing their distress in discreet and often awkward ways. According to Laz: “Most of them will approach you to sell their assets and ask how quickly they can get the payments. The quicker such deals close, the happier they’ll be. Other wealthy clients are cutting luxuries that they think their friends and relatives won’t notice. For instance, wives are selling precious jewellery they rarely wear because friends wouldn’t notice that they’re gone. If they sold their jeeps or expensive state-of-the-art cars, friends and catty relatives will sneer.” And if you ever wondered what a lot of these ‘society’ ladies do with their expensive aso-ebi after the events they wore them for; the good news is that there is a thriving second- hand market at Idumota for instance. where such are snapped up.

According to reports from posh hairdressing salons. stylists grumble about how customers are stretching the life span of their expensive weave-ons and extensions to every three months instead of the recommended four weeks. "They would rather poach some of our workers to give them home treatments for considerably less, than pay our fees. Some don’t even bat an eyelid when they sit with other sweaty clients at various local markets to get the same results they get at posh salons for next to nothing!”, said Lara, owner of a posh hair-dressing salon.

“The drop in wealth,” continued Laz, “has also exposed other personal problems, like bad marriages. Money – which bought jewellery and extravagant parties – helped smooth over many matrimonial problems and masked anxiety. Now that its power is dwindling, the wives might not be so sympathetic..."

If things are this bad for most of the rich and mighty who still have to support their various extended families, heaven only know-how well lesser mortals will fare? The problem is not the Naira, it is its purchasing power that has reduced all of us to economists desperate to make ends meet! The rich might feel depressed flinging off plots of lands and jewellery, but what do the working class and poor have to fling – their cooking pots?!

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Interesting! Checkout 6 Reasons Why Women Desire S*x More Often than Men

It has been said that woman love s*x more than men do and these reasons will explain why that is so. 

Men talk and think a lot about s*x while women desire it more often. We explore the reasons.

 

Gone are the days when ‘demanding s*x’ was considered exclusively a man’s forte. Today women demand s*x greater than men. And they have no qualms about getting vocal about it.

 

“I read these funny E-mail forwards that stress on men begging for sex and women denying it. It sounds so funny to me. It’s totally the opposite in my case. While men can have a good laugh over it believing that this notion exists, I literally have to seduce my husband to get him hooked on to the act,” quips production assistant Megha Mehra. And she is not alone. Many girls/women had a similar story.

 

Women from different backgrounds was asked some questions to figure out what is making them addicted to s*x.

 

1. It’s physically pleasurable

 

Amongst all the other reasons to remain glued to sex, this is the most prominent one. Good s*x satisfies your physical urge, which is very normal for anyone to experience. Psychologist Seema Naina opines, “S*x is the most basic need of any person. And I am increasingly getting cases where women are complaining that men are unable to satisfy their physical needs.”

 

2. Creates positive feelings about oneself

 

Ideally, great s*x means you are enjoying the sexual act and participating equally. It makes you feel good about yourself, thus adding to your self esteem. Shares housewife Neelam Nehra, “When my husband comes back from a whole day at work and we have our sack session, it increases my self esteem. The very feeling that I am able to satisfy him is a great pleasure. And since I never want to go out of shape to look unappealing to my husband (and other men), it even acts as a motivation to work out and feel desirable.” Wondering why?

 

“Sex has healing powers. It generates positive emotions and makes one feel more confident. When a woman sees her man passionate in the act, admiring her body and moves, it infuses a lot of good feelings within her,”opines psychologist Sunaina Bajaj.

 

3. Brings them closer to their man

 

Physical intimacy releases hormone Oxytocin, which is also known as the love hormone. Agrees relationship expert Vandana Mitra, “I have always maintained that couples should never take sex casually. It’s a very important ingredient for any relationship to sustain. It helps couples to nurture the relationship and strengthen the bond.” So whoever said having more sex with your partner means lesser cases of infidelity, made sense.

 

Content developer Prachi Sinha states, “I feel a major connect with my boyfriend after we make love. I just feel like being close to him. My faith in him and our relationship grows stronger.” Prachi’s boyfriend agrees, “When she told me about the 7 days a week sex, I initially could not stop laughing. I mean, this is not the only thing we have to do. But honestly it has got us closer. I just can’t take my eyes off her even when we are moving in a crowd.”

 

4. Negates unwanted emotions/ Stress-reliever

 

Sex is not just a physical sensation but it’s comforting and relaxing. Call centre executive Neetu Sharma shares her experience, “Whenever I have a bad day at work, s*x really helps me unwind. It totally takes the stress out of my mind and makes me feel relaxed and rejuvenated.” Psychologist Reena Kapur explains why. “S*x involves a lot of deep breathing and touching and the hormones that are released during the act calm you down.”

 

5. Great form of exercise

 

Thirty minutes of sex burns more than 85 calories. We have read it almost everywhere that sex helps in burning calories. Confirms fitness consultant Stuti Batra, “While I do not suggest giving up work outs, doubling up the session makes you drop more weight.” While this is the most deadly mix, many girls are seriously taking to it. “It may sound a little funny, but while making love I prefer to play the dominant role. It helps me burn greater calories, leaving my guy in ecstasy,” says Payal Verma.

 

7. Invokes passion

 

“Sometimes I feel like a pervert, because I find myself always thinking about my boyfriend, and what we did the night before. It gives me a kick and makes me crave for our next sack session. He thinks I am crazy, but it really happens to me,” shares call centre executive Richa Sharma.

 

“It is completely normal to fantasise about sex. But I have heard it can freak a guy out- we men are still adapting to the concept of women demanding sex more than us. But we love that passion,” admits psychologist Prateek.

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These Two Pictures Tell You the Types of People We Have

There are those who're happy and hopeful of good things ahead, no matter what is happening NOW. And there are those who are only happy when they win big... Then, when she won the title, Serena Williams was very happy for her, but the next time Serena won and she couldn't even smile. Sigh!

The message; maintaining a positive disposition to life will position you for better days ahead.

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Why Most Men don’t Forgive their Cheating Wife

A married man might be hearing dirty stuffs about his wife and will keep his cool, but the day he catches her in the act, one way or the other, everything changes.

In her lone moments, 38yrs old Kolawole Busola, (real name withheld) would certainly wish she could undo the string of events that led her into the waiting arms of a bad guy Daniels, a colleague at work.

Married to a businessman, Babatope, 43, who travels frequently without much time for romance for their love and intimacy to grow, Busola still has herself to blame for what she has got herself into.

 

How did she land in bed with the guy? Her undoing was sharing her worries with a male colleague who she thought would offered wise counsel but he saw her as opportunity for free s*x. They became close and started going out together. She did it so well that her husband never suspected anything.

Not long after, their friendship became platonic (intimate and affectionate) and few months after, they ended up in bed, having s*x. They did that more than once, and it became a routine to the extent that her husband suspected and started monitoring her, discreetly.

Eventually, Babatope found out that his wife had been sleeping with another man the day he picked his wife’s phone and saw her text messages. According to him, that was the end. Not even pleas and admonitions by family members and friends could convince him to shelve his plan to send her away.

They would have celebrated their 15th wedding anniversary two weeks ago, like they did when it was 10 years, but that celebration was the last thing on their mind that day. Their marriage was already on a fast lane to hit the rocks since the day he found out about his wife’s infidelity.

The union that many admired, on its face value perhaps because they are rich, is getting worse by the day, and not even the pleas and explanations that Busola is dying to offer would make any difference.

Furious Babatope has made up his mind on sending her out of the house, because according to him, the sin committed by his wife was unforgiveable. He had told her, “I can forgive and overlook anything, but not infidelity from my wife. I can never forgive that. So, she has to go.”


Meanwhile, Busola recalled that she had also caught him chatting a lady before and she had to forgive him and that they resolved it after her husband offered some explanation. She started claiming right that now it's her turn, she can't reconcile herself with the fact that her loving husband couldn't forgive her.

The union is blessed with three children; two boys and a girl, but that does not seem like a sufficient reason for him to halt his decision to send her out of his life for good to go be with her play boy lover.

The Intervention
Truly, the thought of a cheating wife can be unsettling. Also, Busola’s experience is not strange; it is in fact the reality for some women. Even though men have always been seen to have more than one woman in our culture, these days some women want to compete with their husband on that, secretly though.

Understandably and for good reasons, a wife's infidelity in marriage is unacceptable, and it has previously been identified as one of the most common reasons for failed marriages.

This might sound unfair to the females, but that seems to be the case in many parts of the world.

Why is it that men find it difficult to forgive their partners if caught cheating?
According to a British Psychotherapist, Philip Hodson, men often find it more difficult to forgive such for the fact that it affects their masculinity, and to them, it might signal the end of the relationship.

Hodson, who is also a Fellow of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, said, “Men find it much harder to forgive their partners for cheating. For a betrayed woman, an affair by the man is an offence against her dignity, but for a betrayed man, a woman’s infidelity is an offence against his manhood. It goes right to the core of his identity.”

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5 Things To Know Before Using A Swimming Pool In Nigeria…

If you have nurtured the idea of going for a swim in a swimming pool recently, then you need to keep calm and read this first

Swimming pools offer a great way to chill out and have fun especially during hot or lazy days. A basic feature of most hotels in Nigeria, visitors and lodgers are always keen to use the amenity.

 

But most of these hotels do not clearly state the guidelines on how the swimming pool should be used and most of the visitors are clueless as to how to behave before and while using the pool.

 

Jumia Travel, Africa’s No.1 online hotel booking portal, in this writeup, offers 5 things every prospective swimming pool user in Nigeria should know before diving into any pool. 

 

1. Only get in the pool if you can swim 

 

A lot of people may not be able to swim but would just want an opportunity to wear their swimsuit and dabble in the water. While this can be fun, it is very risky and should be avoided, especially if you are alone. Not every hotel or club offer swimming pool accessories for beginning swimmers and not all have life guards on standby. If you cannot swim, just avoid the pool.

 

2. Be careful with your mobile device 

 

It is no secret that water is no friend to the mobile device and most times when people go to the pool area, they leave their phones at the edge of the pool or on whatever chair they may have placed their towel. It is advisable you leave your phone safely locked in a safe in your hotel room before coming down to swim. If you are however too attached to your phone, you can bring it with you but you will endeavor to put it in a plastic bag if you plan to keep it near the pool and keep a watchful eye over it lest it gets stolen.

 

3. Do not forget the Sunscreen and Bug spray 

 

This is very important if you are swimming in the noon time. Some hotels will offer you mini bottles but it is always advisable to come with yours, so that you are sure the cream contains enough SPF to protect your skin. Again, bugs tend to frequent pool areas and to avoid being severely bitten, take the bug spray along too.

 

4. Go to the pool with your own accessories 

 

Do not expect to get a fresh swimsuit/gear or towel at the swimming pool, ensure you go with your own stuff, that way you are not disappointed and you run a lesser risk of catching any skin rash or infectious ailment. Pack your swimsuit, your swimming cap, goggles if needed and towels. Also, if you are a beginner in swimming, endeavor to take your own float noodle to the swim pool as not every pool will have all that you may request.

 

5. Avoid drinking the pool water 

 

The pool can be fun and sometimes you may playfully want to taste the water or even drink it….please don’t! The pool water may look clean and pure, but that does not mean it is clean. Aside from the chlorine (which is not good for your health) that is added to the water to kill germs, the pool also contains body fluids, urine and fecal matter from people who may have used it before you.

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Police arrest widow alleged to use secondary school students for sex in Lagos

The Lagos state Police command yesterday paraded Chinonso Okolokwo, who is alleged to engage young secondary school female students in prostitution in the state. According to the Lagos state police commissioner, Fatai Owoseni, Chinonso, who hails from Ebonyi state, goes to different secondary schools in the Surulere area in Lagos state within school hours to lure female students between 12 to 15 years of age to a hotel.

Okolokwo, according to the CP, would give the students clothes to change into, take them to hotels where they meet men, who sleep with them. She would then pay them between N1,000 and N2,000, depending on the number of men they attended to.

"Detectives arrested her on Wednesday. Her mode of operation is to target some secondary schools in the area. She, together with her cohorts, would go to the schools and get the girls to a hotel. The hotel is located in Ikate, Surulere. She would change their clothes and use them as sex slaves. She would keep the girls in the hotel until the school closing time and make them change back into their uniforms. Investigation is still ongoing, and we will extend it to the hotel and the schools which are involved. We want to see whether there is connivance between the suspect and the school authorities.”he said

When interrogated, the suspect said she is a widow and mother of four. According to her, she took to prostitution after the death of her husband

“I do not know anything about the schoolgirls. I am also a ‘hustler’ at Sunderland Hotel. I took to prostitution after the death of my husband 11 years ago. I have four children, but two died before my husband. I lodged at the hotel for a week or two before going home to take care of my children with the proceeds. Several girls from Abuja and other parts of the country come there to hustle as well. Police raided the hotel and arrested me. I am not connected with what they alleged.”she said

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Why Every Husband Needs a 'Girlfriend' - Marriage Counselor Gives Stunning Advice

A marriage counselor has given a rather stunning advice to all couples who have a desire to make the marriage work out.

 The Marriage Counsellor, Frank Adofoli from Ghana, wrote an interesting piece stating why husbands need girlfriends.

 

Below what he wrote:

 

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Yes, every husband needs a girlfriend, not another woman but the girl part of the wife he once fell in love with.

 

You may buy a new lock made of steel, with its keys. The key doesn’t spoil the lock nor vice versa but over the years, the environment and factors such as dirt, rain, change in weather, etc may cause the lock to rust. So its important to oil and maintain it.

 

A similar fate occurs in our relationships. You get married to that young, fun, adventurous girlfriend. As time goes on, most ladies assume that once they earn the title of a wife, no more work is required. It even gets worse when she starts bearing children.

 

That thought is a lie, Marriage is work dear. You will need to work on your marriage. Remember the things he first fell in love with, things about you that captured his heart and attracted him like a magnet; what did this man see in you?

 

Are you still doing those things, how is the fun in the marriage? What is he complaining about? Do you see him chatting with other ladies, trying to look elsewhere? It’s time to work on yourself. Your husband is wrong to look elsewhere, and you have the power to keep him home.

 

Exercise regularly, lose the excess weight and eat healthy. Inside beauty is not enough, external beauty is important, maintain what God gave you. Don't let marriage makes you look older than your age.

 

Dirt and uncleanliness is a common killer of intimacy in marriage. Some wives are too lazy to keep their surroundings organized and clean.

 

The presence of children in your marriage should not kill your romance or intimacy. Remember how many times you bath a day when you were going on a date? how fresh and clean you looked?. If you can keep your home and yourself like that, you will bring back the intimacy.

 

When was the last time you sent that cute sms? When was the last time you had that candle light dinner? When was last time you appreciated your partner’s efforts? How is your s*x life? Most couples crave for s*x when dating but turn their bedroom into courtroom when married, it’s time to go back!

 

Don’t let your actions part God’s union as Matthew 19:6 (ESV) cautions "So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”

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Ladies, You Can't Miss This! These are 10 Tips to Drive Your Man Totally Wild in Bed Tonight

If you have ever wondered why you're not scoring great success with your spouse during s*x, then you need to go through this.

 

 

Men rarely divulge their secret desires to the women in their lives and though everyone has different needs and desires there are some moves and attitudes that most men want.

 

Read on to find out what they are and then give him the time of his life!

 

1. Give some subtle suggestions

 

For men (even though he’s known you for a while now) a woman’s libidinous longings are not always easy to decipher. If you drop some hints about what all you want and guide him along, he will love you for it.

 

Trust us, the man who really loves you would love to please you in every way possible. So, talk to him and tell him if he’s doing just what you wanted or if you want him to continue with something a little longer.

 

2. Bowl him over with a wild move

 

Do something unexpected and wild when you both are at it. Something erotic that he will not be able to forget soon. Make your session stand out by coming up with signature moves. Work on pleasuring him in different ways.

 

3. Offer the spice of variety

 

Change in speed, positions and pressure can really make the entire experience very different. Whether it is the foreplay or the actual act, if there is variety he will never really know what to expect and therefore it will help a great deal in revving up his senses.

 

4. Turn it on yourself

 

Since women take time to get turned on, men love women who can take that responsibility off them so that he can actually get to work. Though your man may love to do all that he needs to in order to get you aroused but he would definitely like it if you were already half-way there. Somehow the fact that you are already in an aroused state is a huge thing for him.

 

5. Spring a surprise

 

For men it is a massive ego boost to know that you want him too. Surprising him with a spontaneous seduction act can really win him. He will not be likely to forget it in a hurry.

 

6. Don’t be scared to be naughty

 

Don’t hold back when you are with your guy. Yes, we know that you have this ‘good-girl’ image that you hold sacred. Men like to see this other side of you when you are not scared to break his ‘good-girl’ image of you. They will never cause offense by actually asking you to do it. Just show him that you are really into him and want him as much as he wants you.

 

7. Give him an eyeful

 

Leaving something on your body, for him to remove can be very arousing. When you are at it just make sure you are near a mirror so that you can see yourselves in action. It can be hot.

 

8. Get rough

 

Yes, he wants it rough at times and he would love it if you let him know that you want it too. Bring out the beast in him and tell him you are having the time of your life.

 

9. Take over

 

Sometimes men just want you to take over while he just lies down and enjoys. It is an ultimate fantasy for them.

 

10. Wear his fav lingerie

 

Show him that you care by wearing his favourite lingerie.

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Ladies Beware! These are 10 Mistakes You Are Probably Making When Removing Your Makeup

It is absolutely an understatement to say ladies love to makeup. They simply cannot do without it these days. But there are mistakes they make while removing it.

For most people, removing makeup is the last thing that you do at night and you want it to be done as soon as possible. That is, if you remember to do it at all. Removing makeup, though is, perhaps, not quite as simple as you had thought. There are some simple rules to be followed, that will make sure that you get all the makeup removed and that could make all the difference to the health of your skin. If you are one of those who think that makeup removal is a one minute job and it can be done with a makeup wipe alone, then you should read these ten makeup removal mistakes that you are probably making.

1. The golden rule of makeup removal is doing it!

We couldn’t have a list of makeup removal mistakes, without including the biggest mistake of all. Never skip removing your makeup at night, however tired you are or how little makeup you have on. At night, your skin regenerates itself and, if your pores are blocked up with makeup, it won’t be able to do this. If you leave your makeup on overnight, your complexion will suffer and you could experience frequent breakouts.

2. You are only using makeup wipes

While makeup wipes might appear to be a quick and easy way to remove makeup, they don’t do a very thorough job of it. Makeup wipes don’t cleanse your skin properly; they just remove the top layer of makeup. They are good to use for the first step of removing makeup, but you will still need to cleanse after that.

3. You are not tying your hair back

You need to put your hair up in a bun or a pony tail when you remove your makeup. This is not just to stop your hair getting covered in gunk, it’s also so that you can remove the makeup, right up to the hair line.

4. You are wiping away mascara in the wrong direction

You have to be particularly careful when removing mascara or you will break your lashes and pull some of them out. Close your eyes and gently remove mascara by wiping them in the direction that they grow.

5. You are leaving your lips until last

Your lips should be the first thing that you remove makeup from and definitely not the last. Whether you have been wearing a nude lipstick or a bold long-lasting lipstick, when you remove it, some of it is bound to get smeared on your face. Make this first job that you do when you remove cosmetic products from your face, and any smears will get removed later with the rest of your makeup.

6. You are not taking your time with your eyes

The skin around your eyes is very delicate and if you are rushing the removal of eye makeup, you might bruise your skin and make your eyes red. Never rub your eyes to remove makeup, soak a cotton pad in eye makeup remover and leave to sit with your eyes closed for a few moments. Then, gently wipe the makeup away.

7. You are using cotton balls

Cotton wool is made of tiny fibres. These fibres can be ever so slightly abrasive on the skin if you rub hard with them, and also some of the fibres can get left behind on your skin and get into your eyes. The best things to use to remove makeup are the cotton pads, which don’t leave any stray fibres behind on the skin.

8. You are not using wipes at all

Having said that wipes alone can’t do a proper job of removing makeup, nor can a facial cleanser. Use a wipe first, to take off the surface layers of makeup, and then use a cleanser for the deep down cleaning. If you use a cleanser alone, all you will be doing is moving the makeup around on your face and forcing it further down into your pores.

9. You are not double cleansing

You should also always double cleanse, to ensure that you leave your pores completely makeup free. Remove the makeup and cleanse your face once, then wash and then cleanse your face again. This will get your skin super-clean, and it will get the blood circulation going too, which will help give you a clear and rosy complexion.

10. You are not using steam

This is not essential for every time you remove your makeup, but if you do it once in a while, it will get your pores really clean. Soak a towel in some hot water, let it cool for a while and place it over your face for a couple of minutes (make sure the towel is not too hot). The steam will open up your pores and soften your skin, so that any residue of makeup will come easily out of your pores.

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